I’m Tired of Hearing that I’m in the Right Place at the Right Time

I had a couple of Friends in town this weekend and they were both single females.  I love them both dearly and it makes me wonder why they

aren’t in happy, fullfilling relationships yet.  It would be different if they didn’t want to be in relationships, but both of them do.  One is a very

attractive 34 year old, 5’11” tall female with a great career, sweet as pie, wants to be in a relationship, but not dating, and says she finds it

challenging to find the right man. My other friend has been through a divorce, very beautiful 34 year old female too, in great shape, is also a

sweetheart, wants to be in a relationship, and  has yet to find a fulfilling relationship.  Well, I spent a good amount of time with the two of

them this weekend and hearing them talk about who the “right man” for them would be….

 

I have heard this once before and will repeat it again for others….they are looking for the “right man”, but what about being the “right woman” so that when

the “right man” comes along, there will be no confusion that they are “right for each other”.

 

Just like in business, this same rule applies.  We must become more attractive to the “right person” looking for the “right opportunity” with the “right leader”. 

We want all the “right people” in our business, however, ask yourself this question – would you sign up with yourself? Are you attractive to others?  Are you the

right leader others are looking for?

 

We are all seeking a leader that can lead us to the path of our dreams.  A leader that can lead others to the promise land not by threatening others or telling

their followers something that would be in the interest of the leader, but the leader does it in the best interest of the follower. In today’s market, people who are

seeking a way to make money on the internet or make money from home aren’t just seeking the money, they are seeking a leader that they can trust. They

are looking for honesty in an unhonest world. They are looking for security in an unsecure world. They are looking for loyalty in an unloyal world.  They are

buying hope when much hope has been lost. They are buying “YOU” more than they are buying the business or product that you are representing.

 

With so many investment markets crashing around us and companies/industries looking for bailouts, the internet has become a huge information resource

for people to look for a way to make more income and re-coup what they lost.  People aren’t going to the yellow pages or the newspaper classified ads

anymore, they are going online. This is why it is critical not only to be in the right place at the right time, but to be the right person. To be the right person is

more critical that the other two.

 

I’ve had to look deeper within myself now more than ever.  How I can be more loving, transparent, patient, tolerant and accepting? How can I continue to

grow as a person emotionally and spiritually before just learning more technical skills? This is a huge challenge for me since I’m not the easiest person to

warm up to and I’m a private person.  As a matter of fact, doing a blog about my thoughts and emotions (and there’s a lot of emotions!) is a huge step out of my

comfort zone.

 

Are you fulfilled with being you, just the way you are? Are you in the relationship you’ve always wanted? Where are you in your business? Are you attracting

leaders and business builders into your business? Are you the leader others are seeking? 

 

Don’t blame others if the answer is no. Look in the mirror and there we will all find both the problem and the solution.

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